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Our new schedule is slowly coming together. I managed to get Zach into chess club after being on a waiting list. I know, chess club? But of all the after school activities offered at the school (Spanish, Gardening, Dance, Piano, Drama, and more), it filled up first. Toto, I've a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore.
"I didn't kick the ball far enough, it didn't go the way I wanted, I don't understand the drill, she blocked my goal, she didn't pass the ball to me, I want to play goalie (Ally), I don't want to play goalie (Emily), my shin guards are hurting my legs," etc.The coach wouldn't let me step in either. So after the 2nd and worst practice, we had a serious talk. This behavior stops now or you will not be playing soccer this year. The frugal part of me cringed at possibly throwing away $$$ in soccer fees and gear. Then we went to positive reinforcement. What do you do when you fall down? Get up. What do you do when someone takes the ball away? Get it back. Their game on Saturday went really well! I could see them tiring and almost whining but I shouted encouraging words at the right times. They made it through without a single meltdown and at the end both said they had a lot of fun. Whew!
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Me, 20-11 years old, stay at home mom
Greg, my husband
Zach, 11 year old son, in 5th grade
Emily, 10 year old daughter, in 4th grade
Ally, 10 year old daughter, in 4th grade
(yes, twins!)
Kyle, 7 year old son, in 1st grade
Kelly, 6 year old daughter, in kindergarten *sobs*
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